simple as asking to cuddle for five minutes before a shower, or even showering together. So, he tells you he wants to introduce you to his sister? First, understand that your guy's hasty retreat post-sex may be because he doesn't understand how much he craves a connection with you. But then every time he cut a piece of steak on his plate, she reached over and ate it! Just say, I had a great time tonight. While our male counterparts can confuse the heck out of us, sometimes they can be the best when it comes to dishing out dating advice. "Ask him what about it turns him on, and express without anger what turns you off he says. Dont overindulge on a date. that's when it can be helpful for him to hear compliments both in and out of the bedroom. "As a woman ages and the relationship goes on, many stop being spontaneously horny she explains. Let the communication be balanced. On your date, make sure you dont do all the talking. D, a psychotherapist and sexologist in Royal Oak, Michigan. Because when it comes to sex, men are far from simple. The solution: Make a game. It may be worth letting her know towards the beginning of your date, just so youre both on the same page. Men want you to embrace sex. (As much as they may try to convince us otherwise.) The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, so what you see on TV is typically far from what can (and should) be delivered in reality. Your ripped jeans may be lucky, but remember, this will be the first impression your date gets of you. A Tired Womans Guide to Passionate Sex and, becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters.